Young woman keeps mom at arm’s length on social media

Dear Abby

DEAR ABBY: I’m the mom of an 18-year-old daughter, “Leia.” We have always tried to keep the lines of communication open with our children, and we have what I think is a strong, positive familial bond.

My best friend recently informed me that Leia has an Instagram account that’s publicly accessible. I can’t find her account when I search, which means she has me blocked. The account was created three years ago when she was a minor. I’m not happy with this. When asked back then, Leia told us repeatedly she didn’t have an Instagram account -- but I always suspected she did, as most young people her age are engaged in social media.