Dear Abby
DEAR ABBY: My son just told me his daughter, age 26, is getting breast enhancement surgery. My question is, how do I address that when next I see her, probably in several months? It’s not like commenting on a new hair color or hairdo. Old men commenting on female anatomy, particularly that part, are not looked upon favorably.
As I see it, there are two ways that this goes. One, she mentions it to me – probably not likely to happen. So, since she got the surgery to make a visible difference, how should I react? Two, she does not mention it. Without an introduction to the subject, I’m not sure I should make any response. Could my silence be perceived as a negative or as a lack of approval? I’d appreciate your help in formulating a response before it becomes necessary. – COOL GRANDPA IN TEXAS DEAR GRANDPA: If your granddaughter mentions it – and she very well may – tell her she looks terrific. Look her in the EYE when you say it. If she does NOT raise the subject, play it cool and keep your lips zipped.
