Boyfriend has personal relationship with his needy boss

Dear Abby

DEAR ABBY: I am a man whose long-distance boyfriend of one year has a married female best friend. (She’s his boss.)

She is also a tobacco-addicted narcissist who drinks a lot. They chat on the phone and text for hours every day because, as he puts it, “she can’t be alone.” I think she uses him to compensate for her insecurities. I also think she’s a bad influence on him.